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Life Success January 11, 2010

Posted by izzyholt in Motivation, Self Help.
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Life is life and you just have to deal with it.  How many times have you heard this statement about Life Success?  I am sure we could all answer, many times.  My guess is that when we hear this kind of statement, it is because we have been handed a disappointment of some kind within our life that is making things complicated. We have somehow encountered something in our “life”, our efforts to live our life, like we need to, a stumbling block maybe, but at any rate something which disrupted our vision.  We need a vision for our life if we are to work appropriately toward the end results.

All of us know that “Life” is life…we have bridges to cross, mountains to climb and pursuits we call mistakes.  If we did not have these kinds of things in our life on our path through “Life” and in our endeavors to what we call “Life Success”, how could be feel a sense of accomplishment?  We could not, because even before we stated on our journey, we knew we would have to untake disappointments, roads less traveled and those things we call after thoughts or should I just say; mistakes.  We have a journey that is ours alone.

Life Success is many things to all of us and “life” itself is something we could write a book about and putting the two together, gives us much to think about.  This thing call “Life” is not prejudice to anyone.  We can all become what we want to, if we work at it and if we are disabled in anyway.  We have a mind to learn and a spirit to guide us to where we see fit.  First things first; “Life” is not a game, playing with “Life” is what causes so many people, I think to feel they have failed.  Our Life Success is no different.  If our performance is poor, we will only have poor results and Success -Through our Performance  is how it is all measured. I realize that a lot of people have fun while they live and work on their Success; nothing wrong with living life to the fullest and having fun.  There are certain rules we must  follow to accomplish certain desires and one of the first is having a clear vision of what where we are headed. 

A clean vision means that we have our priorities in order, we know or think we know what we need to make us feel the end result of accomplishment in our life.  It seems that those who have a loving family know that to be successful, they must first fulfill the needs of their family.  It just doesn’t work any other way…No Life Success is worth losing something as important as their family.  Secondly, most Life Success individuals have “self awareness”, they know who they are and do not allow someone else to dictate how they should view life.  They do not lower their values or their integrity for anyone or anything.  The facts are the facts, the rules are the rules and bending the rule usually brings about undesirable consequencies.   Thirdly, Life Success people know that they can produce a better end result with letting others help them and that their knowledge can be made even more potent by utilizing other people’s experience also. Not any of us know all their is to know…or we would be genius…and not many of us are.

I have watched a lot of Life Success people in my career and usually you find those that stand out the most are those that enjoy promoting and giving credit where credit is due.  They do not seek all of the attention for themselves, but they enjoy making others feel good about their accomplishments as well as their own.  It is really not all that hard to do.  Most people are struggling with something.  Most people try to do a good job, so therefore giving someone acknowledgement of a job well done only takes a few words and can mean so much.  When we see people who can give others encouragement we know they possess a character that shines.

Life Success is free for all, with motivation, endurance and determination.  If we let our inner spirit give us the right directions in the process.  No other individual owes us anything but respect, we owe others nothing but respect.  It is up to us to act respectful and build our life on principles of trust, integrity and high values.  When we lower our standard to become Successful, we endanger everything that represents true “Life Success”.